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WandaS Send a private message. If you're asking them why they're single or why they've never been married you're putting them on the spot and asking for an explanation, judging them. Now you are scrutinizing every single detail of their response do you not see the hypocrisy in that.
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I am not looking to get married. Over history, marriage has mostly been used to gain political power, wealth and resource power and advantages, such as access to land. It is really only just recently in the past years that marriage was linked to love. Most have been arranged. What I would like is some companionship. A woman to spend time with, in general fun activities. Not looking to spend Married women only 40 50 lot of money. Not looking for the status, but just enjoyment.
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Most are open for marriage but are not chasing it. Will I ever get married? That being said you never know what incredible things are just around the corner. Love can be a wonderful thing at 20 or at 80 years old. Or so I hear. I am 47 never been engaged married or even lived with a woman I Married women only 40 50 it to self loathing I am overweight I just believe that woman flat out don't look at me as a potential Marriee or Married women only 40 50 I the nice guy I believe that some people I wouldn't know how to behave anyway Edited on May 29, at You know there are just as many women in a similar position.
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It might Married. Good luck. Michelle Send a private message. I know what I have to offer and have been taken advantage of. Do men seriously consider women at this age who have never been married? Naz Send a private message. God knows I'd rather live with a bunch of cats than a man-child for the rest of my stress free life. Bdj Send a private message. Man or woman; some people just don't feel like getting married by that mile marker, especially if they don't desire children- or children they'll create as opposed to adopting.
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I am divorced with 3 kids. Although he has offered numerous times for us to marry, I am perfectly content with how things are. I was married at 28, for 7 years. I felt trapped. I felt like I had no control or say. My ex was not a compromising person. I was miserable and so were the kids but still, I loved him.
When he divorced me for a 13 year younger female, I was devasted. I realized how incredibly important being faithful was and I would never tolerate otherwise. If it meant being single forever, I could have cared less. I met my boyfriend when he was in his late 20'shad never even had a real relationship or sex for that matter. I thought he was a little odd because of it. His sister, who is turning 39 soon, has never had a serious relationship, no marriage no kids. I always thought that was strange too.
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It may be similar with his sister too. Their own father 5 them for another woman Married women only 40 50 my boyfriend was 2 years old and his sister just newly born.
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Most times I'm ok with it but sometimes, I really wonder who I would have been or what other life I may have lived instead. Keep your friendships close. They'll carry you through. I would like advice please. Married women only 40 50
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Still nothing. Men I try to to talk to have always run away. Those I have been set up with on blind dates excuse themselves or cut it short and I never have hear from them again.
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